My boyfriend and I have had this conversation a grand total of three times over the course of our year, on-again-off-again relationship. The first time, when we were 14, he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend, and after a few days of thoughtful teenage consideration, I agreed.

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You might not be used to having serious emotional discussions, either with your current partner, or at all — and you might wonder what the big deal is with DTR convos. Having that conversation will help you better understand the relationship and what the other person wants, as well as position you to navigate difficult discussions, arguments or even full-blown fights later on. Engle agrees that defining sexual boundaries is a useful and important aspect of a DTR convo. If you're still seeing other people, you need to keep using condoms to protect your health and the health of your partner. Regardless of your sexual health situation, though, a DTR conversation is about trust. Discovering that you had vastly different ideas about the relationship after the fact is deeply unpleasant, and can essentially feel like cheating. All you can do is speak your truth, ask for what you want when you feel it and take the risk.

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Straight talk: there are two phrases that a woman can say that will instill ball-shrinking terror in the heart of every man.


But when is the right time to define the relationship?

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It's a confusing time in datingwhere social media and technology texts and Facebook messages have overtaken good old-fashioned courting and wooing someone over. Now, all your date has to do is show up on time, as promised, and he or she wins points versus making a dinner reservation or actually coming up with a plan for a date.

But, you can be different.

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You have friends?! And family?!

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And, if you spend that much time together, it only makes sense to define the relationship. You want to share everything with this person, from little moments to bigger ones.

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They become your pseudo-journal and right-hand man or woman. Your joys and disappointments are theirs—and vice-versa.

Not only do you assume your almost-ificant other will be at upcoming social events with you, but your friends start to assume so, too. Yes, when we're in the new-to-dating-again scene, we love to complain to our friends about our dates or people we're dating.

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But when we have nothing but nice things to say about someone, chances are this one's a keeper. You don't have sex with other people.

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Or cut it off. Or have sex with other people, too.

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But, point being, you only want to have sex with one person, end of story. Some people do this on purpose while, with many, this happens naturally, whether you leave behind your hairbrush or a piece of clothing. I am not suggesting this as a way to someone's heart and exclusivity, though.

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Then, you are just crazy and trying too hard, Leaving things behind usually happens naturally and is not forced. As time goes on, we should still be on our best behavior, but the real versions of ourselves start to come through, too—like we may have cleaned our talk, the to relationship, the first few times our new beau came over… but then we laxed and he saw us for the none-too-neat person we are.

And, he accepted it.

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Same goes for makeup. Perhaps we once thought he or she could never see our makeup-less face. Yet, over time, we started to not wear makeup all the time around the person, and guess what?

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In fact, they may even prefer it. By future, I mean things that are weeks or months away.

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So, assuming you agree, define away. You cannot envision not seeing or having them in your life.

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How would it be complete, otherwise? And, why would you stop a too-good-to-be-true thing? Why would you ever want to replace the person?

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